September82013

Anonymous asked: Is there a way I can privately message?

Not that I am aware of, unfortunately. I can make a temporary email address for your question and post it if you need that.

April22013

Anonymous asked: Dear Love Doc, Recently my boyfriend and I got into this deep discussion about how he wants to live with his parents when he gets married( keep in mind hes Armenian and very family oriented). I really love him but deep down this isn't something I want and the worst part is that he's not willing to compromise. We've been together for 3 years and I cant imagine my life without him. Is it too early to be talking about these issues or is this worth putting an end to what we have?

Dear Anon,

I don’t believe in “too early” as a time-related issue, but rather an individual-based issue. If you’ve been dating for 3 years and have thoughts about taking the relationship to another level some day, then no, it is definitely not too early. It may, in fact, be a little too late. I wish I could tell you what to do, but you’re stuck unless you make a decision. You can’t hide from this problem. 

I can suggest talking to him. Guys tend to freak out when their girlfriends ask questions like “where is this relationship going” “when are we getting married” and “do I HAVE to live with your parents” but it is what it is and you two need to sit down and have an honest talk about your life together. It’s not going to be pretty, but the longer you put it off the more your life will be miserable. This isn’t something that’s going to just work out on its own, so you need to address it and figure it out. 

My suggestion is: eat before you talk (full stomach = less agitation)  , have the talk earlier in the day (more sunshine, no rush), and be honest, but understanding of his feelings. He loves his family, and he loves you, so he might feel like you’re making him choose if you don’t approach the problem with enough care.

Let me know how it goes, or if you need more advice or clarification

Good Luck,

and Always Love

January312013

Anonymous asked: How do you fix broken trust? A few months ago I did something that I cannot forgive myself for. I didn't cheat or anything but it was something that I knew was wrong and it would hurt her if she ever found out-which she did. I will honestly do anything for my girlfriend and love her to death but she can't seem to forget what happened and shell rub i in my face every chance she gets. I don't know what to do or where to start. I want to fight for this relationship and won't give up. What can I do?

Dear Anon,

Unfortunately, I don’t know of a sure-fire way to fix broken trust. I believe trust is built with great difficulty and broken very easily. Whatever you did to lose her trust, you need to talk to her about it. Open conversation and time is your only chance now. Tell her that you know you hurt her, are very sorry, and want to earn her trust back. Explain to her that you want to fight for the relationship, aren’t willing to give up, and are asking for the same from her. She needs to forgive you in order for your relationship to have a chance, and she clearly has not done so because she brings up the thing you did to hurt her previously “every chance she gets”. I am going to assume that you do not plan to hurt her again, so prove that to her, with time.

Here’s hoping that time, patience, communication and some faith heals your relationship.

Good luck Anon

Always Love

December122012

My brain is a wild jungle full of scary gibberish.

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November122012
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by e.e. cummings

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by e.e. cummings

October242012

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October192012

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yes.

yes.

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best.

best.

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“I won’t give up on us
Even if the skies get rough
I’m giving you all my love
I’m still looking up” Jason Mraz - I won’t give up

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